My Mum may have MS but cant be sure. She has gone to hospital and Doctors several times, They have said she has it and then changed there minds and then several more times. She has a very weak immune system and anything i get (flu etc) will easily get catched by her.

I have heard that If she does MS and that it gets serious i would have to dress her and help her go to the loo and stuff. And to me that just sounds not nice.

But she has just done a 24hr water sample to be tested and looked at. And also she has to have a lumberpunch again soon to see from that to.

So...

But MS is very heard to confirm

    

I work as a volunteer for the MS Society in my city. There are various degrees of Ms. If it is confirmed that your mother has MS, there are medicines which will help her, and she may not have it so badly that she needs help.
Just read more about it, and if confirmed talk to the local MS chapter. They will provide a lot of support