I agree with everybody else. Make sure to calm down before you try to resolve the conflict. Once you both are calm, sit down and talk about your feelings. Don't blame each other. That will just cause more problems.
Sit down in a quiet place and talk about your feelings, and try to work out a solution. Work together, not against each other.
I would definitely stay away from the constant texting. Forcing the other person to talk will not help things. If anything, it'll make things worse.
If you want, send a quick text asking to meet at a coffee shop, home, park, etc. Text something like, " Let's meet at the park during lunch so that we can talk about this and work things out together." Pack a little lunch (bring some flowers too) and go wait for the other person. If she/he doesn't show up, you'll know that this person isn't ready to put the argument behind her/him. Give him/her a few days to think things through. Don't text or call. That just makes you seem needy.
Believe me, when the person is ready and when he/she isn't getting constant messages from you, he/she will be calling you and asking to meet with you.
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