What do you do in this situation? If you want another child, but your spouse doesn’t how do you cope with it? You cannot force someone to have another child, so how do you come to terms that you will not have any more children?

I would love to hear from both sides of this.

    

Ouch, I'm not sure what to say about this one. I would say for others who are not in a commited relationship yet and have a kid, have the conversation with the other person before marrying them to make sure they are on the same child-path as you are.

My husband and I both said we did not want kids when we got married. Well, that changed and we decided to have one. Now that she is getting bigger, I think it would be great to have another one. We even talked about adopting due to the complications I had. Well as time has progressed he has said quite clearly that he does not want anymore children. I see his point on some things, but part of me is resentful.

It is weird sometimes I am ok with it, but others I have baby fever. I have come to terms with it some what, but sometimes it is hard. Does that sound crazy?

Did you try talking to him about this before you got married? If so, and his answer was to your satisfaction, then remind him of what he stated before the two of you got married. Remind him that he stated he wanted more children.

That should do the trick.