I have a lot of trouble dealing with breakups and letting someone go. Even if I know the person is clearly NOT the one for me, I can't help by cling on to the person until she cuts all communication with me.
Is there anyone else having trouble dealing with breakups? Any tips on how to make breakups less painful or being strong enough to let someone go?

    

I actually used to be like that before I was married. I was actually even in an abusive relationship once and didn't break up with that person. We actually split because he found someone else. Could you believe I was devastated? My reason was low self esteem (no one else is going to want me.....) and the fear of being alone for the rest of my life. I ended up become a devout Christian and meeting my husband and got over it (though low self esteem still creeps up now and then). You may want to talk with a therapist, pastor, even close friend for guidance. Good luck!

Julianna~

i think it might be a case of " fear to get alone"...or peoples start thinking that that person is really important so can't let him go...or because he/she is leaving me...not me