Sex—A Symbiotic Association
Sex is the utmost gift given by the god to the mankind. Sex is the most precious souvenir in the life of an individual. Sex is the mandatory part in the life of every animal living on the earth. The one of the most important rule about the sex is that “sex is a symbiotic association of the two humans.” One should understand that the sexual satisfaction of the both the partners should be the only outcome of the sexual act, and if the outcome is always the satisfaction of one partner then it is the parasitic association. Sex is like a game that is played by the two contenders, in which each strives for the satisfaction of the other. Finally in the game of sex both the partners should occur to be the winners. There is no first and second prize because sex is not the competition but sex is the symbiotic association between men and women to reach the ultimate goal of orgasm.
Sex as said by Vatsayana, a renowned writer of Kama Sutra, can be satisfactory only when it is a symbiotic association. The symbiotic association here means both the partners are beneficial in the relationship (sexual relationship). Another important thing that should be kept in the mind to make sex symbiotic is to pay attention to your partner’s need. This will make the sexual association between both the partners to be symbiotic and will finally lead to the satisfactory sex. To make the sexual relationship symbiotic both the partners should understand the likes and dislikes of the each other. The partners should give special importance to the likes of their partner and it is very necessary to avoid the dislikes because if you do the dislikes the sex may turn into the parasitic association and one of the partners will remain unsatisfied.
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