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Old 07-09-2009, 12:53 AM
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Yes, communication with your partner before the sex on the sex will help you to make your sex life interesting and satisfactory. Men who don’t talk on sex with their female partners about the sex usually end up with the bad and unsatisfactory sexual experience. Men who don’t communicate with their female partners usually leave their female counterparts unsatisfactory. Many times the lack of communication leads to the bedroom disasters. The female partners who doesn’t discuss with their partners about their sexual needs usually end up unsatisfactory sexual experience.

It is very important to communicate your thoughts, feelings, desires, and fears about sex with your partner. Mostly women but even men in rare cases don’t communicate with their partners about sex and the distance in their relationship grows. Encourage your partner to share his views on sex with you. By improving the communication both of you will feel closer and comfortable with each other. With the help of communication both of you will come closer and gradually you both will have a great sex life.

Some individuals have the sexual fears like sexual rejection, feeling of shyness, or feeling a fool of oneself, disclosing politically or socially “inappropriate” sexual desires. You can cop with your sexual fears by communicating to your partner about this and get comfortable with your partner. One of the well known sexual myths is that we need to understand the needs of the partner on our own (just like mind readers). The truth is that unless you communicate with your partner abut the how will you be able to satisfy each other. So, please communicate with your partner to have a great and satisfactory sex life.

With the help of communication you come to know about the like and dislikes of your partner. Please consider the like and dislikes of your partner and avoid the things your partner dislikes. With the help of communication over sex neither of the partners feels embarrassing, silly, or distasteful. You will begin to understand by the means of communication during sexual activity that what your partner enjoys. With the help of vocabulary, openness, and trust you come to know either to do something specific or to stop doing it. You don’t feel too self-conscious with the help of communication during the sexual intercourse.
    
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Old 08-30-2009, 07:55 PM
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This is some very good advice. I have never thought about how much communication could affect your sex life. I guess a majority of people are just afraid to talk, and communicate their likes and dislikes with their partner.
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Old 09-04-2009, 01:34 PM
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I agree that communication with your partner is very important in regard to your sex life. While it can be a bit embarrassing to find out that your partner doesn't like something that you hoped they would enjoy, it's much better to know so that your sex life can grow and improve.
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Old 09-08-2009, 10:32 AM
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My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years and we talk about everything. It can still be embarrassing to mention some things. But heck, the man has seen me have 4 kids...there's not too much he HASN'T had his eyes on by now. LOL, I figure why get too shy around him, you know?

We were friends before we got married, so talking is easier now. Not every couple has that, but I do know that if you talk like friends and try to get into each other's interests, it'll make sex way better.

What guy wouldn't find a woman sexy that enjoyed watching football or action movies with him? Get into his head and you'll raise more than an eyebrow. ;-)
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Old 09-24-2010, 06:09 AM
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Nice Post...........
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Old 10-25-2011, 10:31 PM
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That's right
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