My oldest daughter at 12 has actually remained quite active with the exception being in part of the winter and when it is extremely hot in the summer. While she enjoys TV and video games, she participates regularly eats healthy (I can't even count the number of meals/snacks a day) and is in shape.
Unfortunately my husband remarked once how he thought she was putting weight on, but as a developing young girl I couldn't see where anything was cause of great concern because she is not fat at all. I've mentioned to him that even if he thought she had a problem he had to be careful how he shared his concern.
Many young women become weight obsessive and starve themselves thus ruining their metabolism. As long as they are eating right and we aren't measuring what they eat I think they are fine if they get enough exercise. I also never encourage them to finish all their food, if they are full, they are done eating.
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The only way to keep your health is to eat what you don't want, drink what you don't like, and do what you'd druther not. ~Mark Twain
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